I think my first time caused my vagismus and I think I might’ve been assaulted. Support/Advice. I don’t really know where else to post about this.. so I’ll tell my story here of my first time and how it led me to my diagnosis. Yes, this is NSFW, obviously. So, my ex boyfriend and I decided we wanted to have sex, I already had finished ... Your husband is not incompetent. He feels incompetent. Ejaculating inside of a woman is a primal need for most men and being denied it greatly affects their self perception and confidence directly. He is being honest and frank with you. Yes, it isn’t your fault, but his situation is as real and valid as yours. Fuel_Antique. • 3 mo. ago. Yes! It was the one thing that helped me move past my plateau and got rid of a lot of pain for me. I was stuck with the third dilator and now I can work up to the largest after getting Botox a few times. The recovery time was pretty quick. My dr puts me under for it so I don’t feel a thing. 3.I personally really resonate with your experience with having a religious mom. Women from conservative evangelical backgrounds are more likely to have vaginismus than the general population. Likely, many people on this sub-reddit have a similar story. It's so nice to not feel alone!For best results use VuVa™ vaginal dilators 1-2 times a day. Directions Before Use: Wash dilators with a mild, fragrance-free soap and warm water. Let the dilators air dry. Start by testing the smaller size VuVa™ Vaginal Dilators to see which vagina dilator size you are comfortable inserting.This subreddit is for those who suffer or have suffered from vaginismus. We are a community offering support, advice, laughs, and a haven when you need to talk about the struggles. . Partners and friends of vaginismus sufferers are welcome to join in the discussions, but please keep in mind this is first and foremost a place for those dealing ...Update to on vaginismus research that was previously posted on this subreddit. A few years ago I had posted in this subreddit group to interview participants for ethics approved research conducted through Western Sydney University to understand and improve help-seeking for vaginismus. The link to the original post is at the end.This subreddit is for those who suffer or have suffered from vaginismus. We are a community offering support, advice, laughs, and a haven when you need to talk about the struggles. . Partners and friends of vaginismus sufferers are welcome to join in the discussions, but please keep in mind this is first and foremost a place for those dealing …There is one more cause which was originally not yours. 8) a similar traumatic event or psychic state taken over from your mother during pregnancy or the first 3-4 years of life. This cad be due to a rape, a violent husband, being forces to have sex by the father, or something similar which happend to your mother.I worked through vaginismus before we started trying for a baby! But, I'm currently 34 weeks pregnant and hoping for a smooth vaginal delivery! I dilated around 5 times a week for months until we could start having PIV! Since then, I've been able to get a Pap smear, transvaginal ultrasound, pelvic exam, etc!Vaginismus. Using a throwaway because this is something very private for me. This might be kind of long. So I have vaginismus and penetration is pretty much impossible. I don't why or what causes it but the doctor says it is mental and physically I am fine. I didn't grow up in a religious and conservative home and there was no sexual abuse.I remember I posted here about him a while back and all of the responses said to break it off with him, well, he did it for me. Even though he didn't say why, I knew he broke up with me because of vaginismus and not having the sex he wants (we had okay sex). He and I were supposed to do sex therapy—because we wanted to reach our goal of ...This subreddit is for those who suffer or have suffered from vaginismus. We are a community offering support, advice, laughs, and a haven when you need to talk about the struggles. . Partners and friends of vaginismus sufferers are welcome to join in the discussions, but please keep in mind this is first and foremost a place for those dealing ...I've had vaginismus for about a decade and did 8 months of pelvic floor physical therapy in 2021, followed by mental health therapy and trauma processing. I finished the trauma processing part of therapy after about a year (EMDR) after starting and have remained in therapy because I've found it very beneficial for my overall wellbeing.May 23, 2023 ... Absolutely. Common causes are stress, chronic pain, some physiological traits like scoliosis or your uterus position, nerve pain, and certain ...This subreddit is for those who suffer or have suffered from vaginismus. We are a community offering support, advice, laughs, and a haven when you need to talk about the struggles. . Partners and friends of vaginismus sufferers are welcome to join in the discussions, but please keep in mind this is first and foremost a place for those dealing ...This subreddit is for those who suffer or have suffered from vaginismus. We are a community offering support, advice, laughs, and a haven when you need to talk about the struggles. . Partners and friends of vaginismus sufferers are welcome to join in the discussions, but please keep in mind this is first and foremost a place for those dealing ...Primary Vaginismus - refers to the experience of vaginismus with 'first-time' intercourse or tampon insertion attempts. Secondary Vaginismus - refers to the experience of vaginismus experienced later in life, after having had pain-free sex. This is the more common of the two, especially after childbirth or menopause.This subreddit is for those who suffer or have suffered from vaginismus. We are a community offering support, advice, laughs, and a haven when you need to talk about the struggles. . Partners and friends of vaginismus sufferers are welcome to join in the discussions, but please keep in mind this is first and foremost a place for those dealing ...Bad pap smear experience. Think I'm finally coming to terms that I might have vaginismus after what I can only describe as a terrible first Pap smear experience. For full disclosure, I'm 25 and my vagina has truly been a no-go zone my whole life. I've never even put a finger in there, and have never successfully been able to put a tampon ...Advice Required. I met a guy like year mutually and we ended up making out. After that, we have been talking pretty regularly but since we're in 2 different countries, we cannot meet. The next time when I met him we again made out and I know he was expecting to have sex. I made an excuse that I have my periods and I don't have sex while having ...Skip to main content. Open menu Open navigation Go to Reddit Home. r/vaginismus A chip A chipVaginismus. Using a throwaway because this is something very private for me. This might be kind of long. So I have vaginismus and penetration is pretty much impossible. I don't why or what causes it but the doctor says it is mental and physically I am fine. I didn't grow up in a religious and conservative home and there was no sexual abuse.This subreddit is for those who suffer or have suffered from vaginismus. We are a community offering support, advice, laughs, and a haven when you need to talk about the struggles. . Partners and friends of vaginismus sufferers are welcome to join in the discussions, but please keep in mind this is first and foremost a place for those dealing ...This subreddit is for those who suffer or have suffered from vaginismus. We are a community offering support, advice, laughs, and a haven when you need to talk about the struggles. . Partners and friends of vaginismus sufferers are welcome to join in the discussions, but please keep in mind this is first and foremost a place for those dealing ...This subreddit is for those who suffer or have suffered from vaginismus. We are a community offering support, advice, laughs, and a haven when you need to talk about the struggles. . Partners and friends of vaginismus sufferers are welcome to join in the discussions, but please keep in mind this is first and foremost a place for those dealing ...Vaginismus is a poorly understood condition that causes involuntary vaginal spasms. Here's what I learned from vaginismus treatment.Vaginismus Recovery. About four months ago I posted here about my vaginismus. It's amazing how far I have come in that time. Posting that and reading responses was kind of a catalyst for me to get better. My mindset sort of transformed and I realized that I wanted to have a sex life that involved piv sex. I know this post may not be seen by ...This subreddit is for those who suffer or have suffered from vaginismus. We are a community offering support, advice, laughs, and a haven when you need to talk about the struggles. . Partners and friends of vaginismus sufferers are welcome to join in the discussions, but please keep in mind this is first and foremost a place for those dealing …YES IT IS WORTH IT. I spent 2 years doing no dialators with no improvement and then fixed my vaginismus in like 2 months of going to pt. This and mental health therapy were the keys. It is wild how helpful pelvic floor PT is. I kick myself for waiting so long…. If money is an issue I would honestly at least do a couple of sessions (3-5) with ...This subreddit is for those who suffer or have suffered from vaginismus. We are a community offering support, advice, laughs, and a haven when you need to talk about the struggles. . Partners and friends of vaginismus sufferers are welcome to join in the discussions, but please keep in mind this is first and foremost a place for those dealing ...Nov 17, 2022 ... This is your body and you should take the time you need to treat it, dont let him stress you about it. And like the advice both me and my sister ...Step 2 was the in-person psychological evaluation regarding sex and then they take you to a room to look at your vagina to qualify the severity of the vaginismus. From there you set up appointments to start on dilation which is basically a kit of smaller to extra large dilators that gradually stretch the vagina muscle and make it so your mind ...I think my first time caused my vagismus and I think I might've been assaulted. Support/Advice. I don't really know where else to post about this.. so I'll tell my story here of my first time and how it led me to my diagnosis. Yes, this is NSFW, obviously. So, my ex boyfriend and I decided we wanted to have sex, I already had finished ...As the title suggests I'm looking for books where the FMC has vaginismus or some kind of similar problems with penetration. I myself struggle with vaginismus, so I would be nice to read about it. I'm not very picky with my books. I read most things and trops - just not HR and YA.This subreddit is for those who suffer or have suffered from vaginismus. We are a community offering support, advice, laughs, and a haven when you need to talk about the struggles. . Partners and friends of vaginismus sufferers are welcome to join in the discussions, but please keep in mind this is first and foremost a place for those dealing ...This subreddit is for those who suffer or have suffered from vaginismus. We are a community offering support, advice, laughs, and a haven when you need to talk about …Bad pap smear experience. Think I'm finally coming to terms that I might have vaginismus after what I can only describe as a terrible first Pap smear experience. For full disclosure, I'm 25 and my vagina has truly been a no-go zone my whole life. I've never even put a finger in there, and have never successfully been able to put a tampon ...Yes, I've had primary vaginismus for probably my whole life, but only began noticing when I started getting curious about my body around puberty. I think two traumas caused it, one being a physical sexual trauma that I don't fully remember and the other being toxic religious shame that was fed to me for two decades. Honestly it's pretty crushing.Jan 2, 2024 ... This tweet made me LOL ... Sometimes I wonder if I even like men at all some are so cruel. ... I mean my abusive ex created/triggered the vaginismus ...This subreddit is for those who suffer or have suffered from vaginismus. We are a community offering support, advice, laughs, and a haven when you need to talk about the struggles. . Partners and friends of vaginismus sufferers are welcome to join in the discussions, but please keep in mind this is first and foremost a place for those dealing ...This subreddit is for those who suffer or have suffered from vaginismus. We are a community offering support, advice, laughs, and a haven when you need to talk about the struggles. . Partners and friends of vaginismus sufferers are welcome to join in the discussions, but please keep in mind this is first and foremost a place for those dealing ...This subreddit is for those who suffer or have suffered from vaginismus. We are a community offering support, advice, laughs, and a haven when you need to talk about the struggles. . Partners and friends of vaginismus sufferers are welcome to join in the discussions, but please keep in mind this is first and foremost a place for those dealing …Jun 17, 2023 ... Short answer, it's not bad to leave vaginismus untreated per se but you should still be going to a gyno regardless of whether you treat it.This subreddit is for those who suffer or have suffered from vaginismus. We are a community offering support, advice, laughs, and a haven when you need to talk about the struggles. . Partners and friends of vaginismus sufferers are welcome to join in the discussions, but please keep in mind this is first and foremost a place for those dealing ...This subreddit is for those who suffer or have suffered from vaginismus. We are a community offering support, advice, laughs, and a haven when you need to talk about the struggles. . Partners and friends of vaginismus sufferers are welcome to join in the discussions, but please keep in mind this is first and foremost a place for those dealing ...Step 2 was the in-person psychological evaluation regarding sex and then they take you to a room to look at your vagina to qualify the severity of the vaginismus. From there you set up appointments to start on dilation which is basically a kit of smaller to extra large dilators that gradually stretch the vagina muscle and make it so your mind ...This subreddit is for those who suffer or have suffered from vaginismus. We are a community offering support, advice, laughs, and a haven when you need to talk about the struggles. . Partners and friends of vaginismus sufferers are welcome to join in the discussions, but please keep in mind this is first and foremost a place for those dealing ...There’s more to life than what meets the eye. Nobody knows exactly what happens after you die, but there are a lot of theories. On Reddit, people shared supposed past-life memories...What happens with vaginismus is that the pelvic floor muscles involuntary contract and "tighten up" when something is about to be inserted, making it painful or impossible to insert. This could be because of fear, because you're nervous, generally stressed, it could be because of sexual or medical trauma, trauma from purity culture, birth ...This subreddit is for those who suffer or have suffered from vaginismus. We are a community offering support, advice, laughs, and a haven when you need to talk about the struggles. . Partners and friends of vaginismus sufferers are welcome to join in the discussions, but please keep in mind this is first and foremost a place for those dealing …Vaginismus is normally pain with sex, but if you’re feeling like you have to pee the whole time, it might be that h s pushing too far upward onto your bladder maybe? I’m not totally positive. Vaginismus is painful but it could be something related, which is pelvic floor dysfunction. Sounds like he might be hitting some trigger point that is ...This subreddit is for those who suffer or have suffered from vaginismus. We are a community offering support, advice, laughs, and a haven when you need to talk about the struggles. . Partners and friends of vaginismus sufferers are welcome to join in the discussions, but please keep in mind this is first and foremost a place for those dealing ...This subreddit is for those who suffer or have suffered from vaginismus. We are a community offering support, advice, laughs, and a haven when you need to talk about the struggles. . Partners and friends of vaginismus sufferers are welcome to join in the discussions, but please keep in mind this is first and foremost a place for those dealing ...This subreddit is for those who suffer or have suffered from vaginismus. We are a community offering support, advice, laughs, and a haven when you need to talk about the struggles. . Partners and friends of vaginismus sufferers are welcome to join in the discussions, but please keep in mind this is first and foremost a place for those dealing ...This subreddit is for those who suffer or have suffered from vaginismus. We are a community offering support, advice, laughs, and a haven when you need to talk about the struggles. . Partners and friends of vaginismus sufferers are welcome to join in the discussions, but please keep in mind this is first and foremost a place for those dealing ...My [30/m] gf [26/f] has Vaginismus that is ruining my relationship. I ll probably get downvoted for this but I need advice if anyone's relationship took a downward turn due to Vaginismus and how the guys took care of it. A little background, in my year long relationship of long distance, me and my gf have had sex less than 5 times.Talking about my journey with vaginismus. Support/Advice. Hey everyone. I struggled with vaginismus for about 6 months last year before I was finally able to have PIV. Things aren't perfect but I'm definitely much better. I came from a religious background in the era where purity culture was rampant, which I think partially fed into having ...This subreddit is for those who suffer or have suffered from vaginismus. We are a community offering support, advice, laughs, and a haven when you need to talk about the struggles. . Partners and friends of vaginismus sufferers are welcome to join in the discussions, but please keep in mind this is first and foremost a place for those dealing ...What happens with vaginismus is that the pelvic floor muscles involuntary contract and "tighten up" when something is about to be inserted, making it painful or impossible to insert. This could be because of fear, because you're nervous, generally stressed, it could be because of sexual or medical trauma, trauma from purity culture, birth ...need help from diagnosed people/people who have experience! i just started trying PIV and i can't tell if i have vaginismus or not. the first inch or so doesn't hurt during penetration, but going any deeper is a bit painful and stings a little. it feels like he's hitting a wall— that's the best way i can describe it. the pain/stinging aren't excruciating and i can tolerate them ...Advice Required. I met a guy like year mutually and we ended up making out. After that, we have been talking pretty regularly but since we're in 2 different countries, we cannot meet. The next time when I met him we again made out and I know he was expecting to have sex. I made an excuse that I have my periods and I don't have sex while having ...It’s hard to stay motivated. Physical Therapy. I’ve been trying to deal with my vaginismus for 5 months and it’s been really hard. The progress I’ve made has been so slow. I went from not being able to insert anything, to almost 1 full finger by myself. But I feel like the progress has just gone stagnant from there.This subreddit is for those who suffer or have suffered from vaginismus. We are a community offering support, advice, laughs, and a haven when you need to talk about the struggles. . Partners and friends of vaginismus sufferers are welcome to join in the discussions, but please keep in mind this is first and foremost a place for those dealing ...i feel so bad and ashamed. Vent. so basically i had a date last thursday to have a drink with a guy (first time we met), and then i went to his house on saturday evening (i spent the night there). we had sex but without penetration since, as usual, it didn’t work for me. he didn’t question it or anything, didn’t put any pressure and was ...InvestorPlace - Stock Market News, Stock Advice & Trading Tips It’s still a tough environment for investors long Reddit penny stocks. A... InvestorPlace - Stock Market N...Posted by u/shemakesmefeelhuge - 6 votes and 9 commentsThis subreddit is for those who suffer or have suffered from vaginismus. We are a community offering support, advice, laughs, and a haven when you need to talk about the struggles. . Partners and friends of vaginismus sufferers are welcome to join in the discussions, but please keep in mind this is first and foremost a place for those dealing ...Reddit iOS Reddit Android Reddit Premium About Reddit Advertise Blog Careers Press. ... It's like my defective vagina is a metaphor for my depression and inability to feel happiness in nonsexual situations. I hurt so much. I've tried over a dozen medications and talk therapy. I'm hopeless. I feel awful. Ugh.I’m a trans man (FtM) and I’m pretty sure I have vaginismus. There’s a nice history of sexual assault to top the lovely bout of dysphoria about my genitals. Dilation is not going well at all. I can get one knuckle deep, but then it starts hurting. I get lightheaded just looking at the thing and a kegel with a finger in made me want to puke.Jun 25, 2020 ... It's another condition where you have chronic pain on the vulvar part so right at the opening. It creates a burning/stabbing pain. It can be ...3. dropsinariver. • 2 yr. ago. I couldn't do a pap smear at first. It was a pretty terrible experience. After some practice (before I got my dilators, but used fingers, etc) and a diagnosis, I did get a pap! I talked to my doctor about my concerns, and she made sure to get a child size speculum and used a lot of lube.Are you looking for an effective way to boost traffic to your website? Look no further than Reddit.com. With millions of active users and countless communities, Reddit offers a uni...Vaginismus. Vaginismus is an involuntary tensing of the vagina. People experience it at the start of sex, while inserting a tampon or while getting a pelvic exam. Vaginismus can make intercourse painful (dyspareunia). Kegels, vaginal dilators and cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) can help relax muscles and stop spasms.Vaginismus is a sexual problem. It has several possible causes, including: Past sexual trauma or abuse. Mental health factors. A response that develops due to physical pain. Intercourse. Sometimes no cause can be found. Vaginismus is an uncommon condition.This subreddit is for those who suffer or have suffered from vaginismus. We are a community offering support, advice, laughs, and a haven when you need to talk about the struggles. . Partners and friends of vaginismus sufferers are welcome to join in the discussions, but please keep in mind this is first and foremost a place for those dealing ...Jan 2, 2024 ... This tweet made me LOL ... Sometimes I wonder if I even like men at all some are so cruel. ... I mean my abusive ex created/triggered the vaginismus ...Real estate is often portrayed as a glamorous profession. Real estate agents, clients and colleagues have posted some hilarious stories on Reddit filled with all the juicy details ...This subreddit is for those who suffer or have suffered from vaginismus. We are a community offering support, advice, laughs, and a haven when you need to talk about the struggles. . Partners and friends of vaginismus sufferers are welcome to join in the discussions, but please keep in mind this is first and foremost a place for those dealing …Vaginismus is considered to be one of the most treatable sexual disorders. Effective treatment approaches include: Vaginal dilation under anesthesia with Botox injection of the pelvic floor and vagina—This procedure involves gentle sedation and Botox injections, which are used to relax the vaginal muscles. The injections are used in conjunction with a dilator, which helps stretch the muscles.This subreddit is for those who suffer or have suffered from vaginismus. We are a community offering support, advice, laughs, and a haven when you need to talk about the struggles. . Partners and friends of vaginismus sufferers are welcome to join in the discussions, but please keep in mind this is first and foremost a place for those dealing ...This subreddit is for those who suffer or have suffered from vaginismus. We are a community offering support, advice, laughs, and a haven when you need to talk about …May 4, 2023 ... I do offer a bit of resources on taking a mind-body neuromodulation approach.. I keep them all in a facebook group, can't send stuff over reddit ...Just so you know, this condition and pelvic pain in general is actually way more common than you think. 1 in 5 people in North America alone have vaginismus or some other female pelvic disorder. Our society gives a lot of messaging about what’s “natural” and what women are supposed to do but it’s a crock of patriarchal bullshit most of the time.wildeyesforever. • 2 yr. ago. I was never diagnosed with vaginismus, but I do think I have it. I’ve been using a menstrual cup for about 3 years now, and I have to say it definitely helps me practice relaxing my muscles so that I can insert/remove it. You’ll most definitely want to be comfortable with inserting at least two fingers to ...Starting with fingers in perfect and it gives you the option to do trigger point release as well (basically massaging areas in and around your vagina). I find that helps me a lot. You can then move up to two fingers, then three, etc. From there, you can use dildos if you have different sizes. You can also start with a tampon (the kind with the ...This subreddit is for those who suffer or have suffered from vaginismus. We are a community offering support, advice, laughs, and a haven when you need to talk about the struggles. . Partners and friends of vaginismus sufferers are welcome to join in the discussions, but please keep in mind this is first and foremost a place for those dealing ...This subreddit is for those who suffer or have suffered from vaginismus. We are a community offering support, advice, laughs, and a haven when you need to talk about the struggles. . Partners and friends of vaginismus sufferers are welcome to join in the discussions, but please keep in mind this is first and foremost a place for those dealing ...
I made a post a few months back about my experience with vaginismus shortly (9 weeks postpartum) after giving birth: Experience With Vaginismus Post-Birth I'm now a little over 9 months postpartum. I confirmed that the pain that I felt the first few times I had sex postpartum was caused by micro-tears as that pain completely went away shortly after …. Big asses porn pictures
This subreddit is for those who suffer or have suffered from vaginismus. We are a community offering support, advice, laughs, and a haven when you need to talk about the struggles. . Partners and friends of vaginismus sufferers are welcome to join in the discussions, but please keep in mind this is first and foremost a place for those dealing ...Dilating is not a solution for everyone suffering from vaginismus. It could be a temporary help, but it won't cure the issue itself, at least not for everyone. Same with pelvic floor therapy. I had vaginismus until the age of 30, YEARS of dilating didn't do shit for me. My case was extremely severe, not even a q-tip could be inserted.We are a community offering support, advice, laughs, and a haven when you need to talk about the struggles. . Partners and friends of vaginismus sufferers are welcome to join in the discussions, but please keep in mind this is first and foremost a place for those dealing with the pain personally.Vaginismus is a type of female sexual dysfunction in which the muscles of the vagina contract involuntarily during attempts at sexual intercourse, causing discomfort and pain. In addition to interfering with a healthy sex life, vaginismus may prevent women from inserting tampons or having pelvic exams.I had trouble finding studies particularly focussing on the prevalence of different causes of vaginismus though (vaginismus is a bit under researched in general and most studies are about testing ways to fix it), so whether the patients were abused is mostly just mentioned as part of the general results of questionnaires they do as part of the ...Reddit is a popular social media platform that has gained immense popularity over the years. With millions of active users, it is an excellent platform for promoting your website a...This subreddit is for those who suffer or have suffered from vaginismus. We are a community offering support, advice, laughs, and a haven when you need to talk about the struggles. . Partners and friends of vaginismus sufferers are welcome to join in the discussions, but please keep in mind this is first and foremost a place for those dealing ...Vaginismus is as much an emotional and mental challenge as a physical one. Even if you can physically push through pain or major discomfort, you are setting yourself back in the long run. You have to take the time to slowly work up to each dialator size. If you force something in yourself through the pain, it just reinforces in your mind that ...Vaginismus treatment - a combined approach. Forth often sees patients with secondary vaginismus who have also been diagnosed with vulvodynia and vulval pain syndromes. "There can be more than one thing going on - potentially a wider pelvic dysfunction alongside psychosexual issues and neuropathic pain, so it is important to …So much of vaginismus is fear based and involves clenching, shrinking and feeling small. But these two parts are meant to emphasize blossoming, opening up and receiving pleasure. ... i remember another reddit user said that learning to eroticize penetration helps and i agree! this practice is about leaning into desire and arousal. something ...As some of you have noticed, the subs r/mildlyboobs, r/mildlyvagina and r/mildlypenis (and likely a bunch of other subreddits) recently had a lot more reposts. This was caused by an outage of the hosting for our previous bot, combined with other technical challenges. We deciced to transition to the u/repostsleuthbot, assuming everything goes ...This subreddit is for those who suffer or have suffered from vaginismus. We are a community offering support, advice, laughs, and a haven when you need to talk about the struggles. . Partners and friends of vaginismus sufferers are welcome to join in the discussions, but please keep in mind this is first and foremost a place for those dealing ....